15 ways to have better sexual relationship with your spouse

15 ways for a better sexual life

Sexual dis-satisfaction and cruelty being the major cause of divorce nowadays is found to heart breaking when just think it off. A true time oath taken on a marriage day just gets broken because of sex in many couples. In some others sex binds them more and more, it has become a central role for all what they do unitedly. Though it is not a matter to be praised but sex between spouses is holy to be considered. It binds, unites, increases love, affection, care, longing etc., between two persons on the earth. I hope the following 15 ways will help you having a wonderful time with your spouses. May be it is not enough but adequate. Last but not the least, every couple will get satisfaction in different angles; you have to invent your own methodology and comforting by practice, it will give you a fully functional sexual time and extended love.

1.       Don’t drink liquors, it will cause nervousness; may be it seems to be good in the initial time but will spoil your sexual life.

2.       Don’t smoke, avoid tobacco.

3.       Don’t watch porn movies, it will create a wrong image on your heart with many fantasies.

4.       Don’t be so cruel in handling your spouse.

5.       Don’t be too fast in your sexual intercourse.

6.       Have a long foreplay before sex.

7.       Speak of sex to your spouse openly.

8.       Love him/her more than any other and express it to them. Let them feel your comfort.

9.       Don’t think that sex is bad; between husband and wife there is no boundaries or barriers.

10.   Enjoy yourself and your spouse. Be open to your spouse and try to rectify all your problems.

11.   Don’t start speaking problems of your life in the bedroom.

12.   Don’t think of your previous love/partners.

13.   Do what your spouse wants; this will strengthen your love.

14.   Try to control your ejaculation so that your spouse will feel good for a long time.

15.   Make your sexual desires within your spouse alone; don’t try to break your marriage boundary.

Top 12 harmful effects of smoking

Avoid cigarettes

Smoking being an injurious habit is addictive and spoilage to the smokers and to their family. Research studies instincts that passive smoking is more dangerous than active smoking. Many in the world die due to cancer and heart attack; smoking stands one of the major reasons for both these diseases. As it is already known to us, smokers should give up this habit of themselves otherwise the relief is a big question mark which creates further problems. There are so many lovable instances in our life but this noxious habit will makes us not to enjoy pleasures. Smokers usually start doing it for fashion and many others are for fantasy, but will struggle to give up even if they like not to smoke, as it addicts.

Here are some harmful reasons why cigar should be stopped by you. You may have already known about this but will make you think off for sure. I hope you should take a strong decision so as to avoid this notorious habit that spoils your life and others. A modified proverb on smoking habit clearly explains the condition of the smokers: “A cigar a day will make you to be in the hospital everyday”.

Smoking causes cough

1.       Smoking causes tooth decay, wheezing, bronchitis and other respiratory problems in beginners whereas bad breath, mouth cancer, throat cancer, oesophageal cancer, lung cancer, heart diseases and emphysema (COPD) etc., in adult smokers.

2.       Smoking decreases your lifetime on earth, you will die in a half way usually with much pain due to a serious illness unless an accident happens.

3.       Smoking causes infertility in both males and females. It reduces sperm count in males and obstructs menstrual cycle in females. It also creates risk in menopause for mature females and adult smokers.

4.       Smoking spoils the blood circulation as it intrudes “nicotine” a harmful substance in the blood stream.

5.       Smoking during pregnancy for women is more harmful as it affects the brain development of the baby and will cause sudden premature death of the foetus or infant many times. In early stages of pregnancy it will cause spontaneous abortion.

Cigar causes less motility of your sperms

6.      Smoking makes your blood not to reach the brain on time, also carbon monoxide present in the puffs will retard the oxygen binding activity of your blood; this causes stress in your brain and strain in your heart. On set of stroke and myocardial infarction could happen at any time in your life time.

7.       Smoking causes dysfunction of bristles and hairs present in the nostrils and in the paths of the lungs. This is too harmful that the entry of dust, microbes and other particulate matters will not be controlled for a period of time after a smoke.

8.       Smoking also creates nervousness and minimises your energy in doing a work. It makes you to proceed with less knowledge and thus hinders the IQ.

9.       Smoking spoils your decency, it makes others to think low on you and you are just spoiling your image in front of them.

10.   Smoking increases your sorrow, a smoke can never be a solution to your problems; in fact it increases as its worse effects cause additive problems to the life and puts us in a great risk altogether.

11.   Above all smoking addicts a person, relief from this habit is very difficult as it cannot be controlled easily. Thirst for smoking and longing to smoke will create a stress in your heart and there by distracts your attitude.

12.   Last but not the least, there are somebody who love you so much; it may be your mom, dad, bro and sis, spouse, children, friends and relatives etc., you leave a negative impression in their hearts and spoil their aspirations on you. You cannot satisfy them or can give a reply to their love as you will die with a naughty habit which spoils your life and threats the others. You stand as a negative example to them and at last you will lose their love and care or else will put them on risk.

Blood Donation

Blood Donation:

Blood Donation

Blood donation is an easiest way of serving the needy. As the blood disintegrates every 120 days in our body, a donation of blood every six months would never harm a person to a large extent. It is rather healthier for us to generate new blood cells as well as renewing our metabolic actions.

Who can donate Blood?

Ø  A person with the completion of 18 years of age can donate Blood.

Ø  He or she should be above 45 kg of weight

Ø  He/she should not be above 60 years of age.

Ø  The person may be of any sex in nature.

Ø  He/ she can donate blood regularly in every four months of interval. No one should donate blood for even two times within three months because it may affect your health seriously.

Ø  One can donate blood for a maximum of four times in a year.

Benefits of blood donation.

§  A satisfaction of serving people at risk could be obtained.

§  The blood donation initiates new blood synthesis in our body there by rejuvenation of your own blood.

§  The person receiving blood will bless you and pray for you too.

§  The blood donated at risk to save a life is more than donating billion dollars to a service.

§  Rare blood group (O -ve) people on donating their blood serve the greatest of what they can lend to other.

Other news about blood donation

v  It is a painless process.

v  Both donor and receiver will get no harm.

v  The donor can do his usual work without any risk.

v  The blood taken will get rejuvenation within few weeks of time.

v  No special food is needed before or after blood donation.

v  Only disposable syringes are used for blood donation.

v  No disease could be obtained on doing blood donation.

v  You will get a free slip with your blood type and basic disease screening profile.

v  No experience is needed for doing blood donation.

v  No medication or health drink, other than usual food is needed for a blood donor.

Three type of donors

a)      Voluntary donors ( They are ready at all the time)

b)      Donors for friends and relatives. ( They won’t give for other voluntarily)

c)       Donors who sell their blood for money (This is not a good practice)

About 40-50% of blood is obtained from voluntary donors. They used to test their blood for free at times of risk. If more numbers of people do this then we would control AIDS, Hepatitis and Syphilis to a large extent.

Who should not donate blood?

1.       People with AIDS, VD, Syphilis and other sexually transmitted diseases should not donate their blood.

2.       People with infectious diseases such as cholera, typhoid and hepatitis should not donate blood.

3.       People who are addicted to alcohol, liquor, drugs, pan masala, guthka and tobacco are not advised to donate blood. They would have high levels of nicotine in their blood.

4.       People who have rescued from a disease recently are not advised to donate blood as their body condition will be week.

5.       Those who have married recently are not advised to donate blood.

6.       People addicted to sex and those who have many sexual partners are not advised to donate blood as it is a risk to both the donor and receiver.

7.       People with biochemical disorder (metabolic disorder) and genetically recessive disorders in their blood are not advised to donate blood. They may have different mechanisms getting operated in their body.

8.       People who take continuous medication for their ailments for a long time are not advised to donate blood

9.       A person who took medicine can donate blood only after 3-5 hours of time or as per the doctor’s advise

30 harmful effects of homosexual relationship among Gays and Lesbians.

30 harmful effects of homosexual relationship among Gays and Lesbians.

Homosexual practice is a menace in the society nowadays. In some places of the world it is legalized too; in those places they have done the greatest disruption to the basis of their societal life. The homosexuality is not a natural practice and God the perpetual novelty has not created you and me for that purpose. He made us as man and women so as to love and enjoy sexual life through family relationship. But, this is a contradiction in homosexual practice; they cannot form real families, they don’t have values of a societal life and they are not natural by any means. Homosexuality is not a disease, nor a genetic character, doesn’t emerge out of hormonal outbreak but a habit that ruins the life of a practitioner. The homosexual partners usually addict to it and they feel like dying when stopped from their practice; moreover it is a sin that kills the eternity as well as the life of a human being. I hope the readers of this post who have this practice should start trying to stop it, as a greatest pleasure of life and family are waiting for them.

Here are some of the harmful effects of homosexual relationships among Gays and Lesbians.

1. Homosexual is unnatural, you are violating the rules of the nature.

2. Scientific studies are stating that the homosexuals used to have lesser lifespan than normal human beings.

3. Childhood molestation happens a lot due to homosexuals in the work places.

4. Many school children are abused by their teachers and other staffs of the school for having homosexual relationships

5. Pedophiles are getting increased due to homosexual practice.

6. Homosexuals usually practice dangerous habits like using drugs, drinking illicit liquor and many more. They are usually an addict to drugs, liquor and cigars.

7. The usage of common needle among homosexuals is more pronounced as they keep more intimacy; whereas the former cause many deadly diseases among them.

8. It is not a good habit to be practiced or to be followed and always not a biological form to be discussed like a transex. It is practiced with more disastrous effect than any other in the society.

9. Homosexual practice not only harms themselves but also the society as they cause deadly diseases and immoral attitudes among young people.

10. The homosexuals practice violence more than that of heterosexuals. It is common among lesbians of younger age. Homosexuality is also a reason for the spread of pain sex and BDSM.

11. The central dogma of a society is its family; the concept of family relationship shatters when homosexuality is practiced. You may legally accept it (In Netherlands and some parts of America it is legal) but in those places you can see divorce cases and family disruption to a large extent.

12. Homosexuality leads to promiscuity; they used to practice sex with different partners. They need it as the family concept and control over sex is not stressed in the homosexual relationships.

13. Worse sex practices are common among homosexuals. Some of them include anal sex among gays and anal oral sex among lesbians is more common than heterosexuals. This may lead to dangerous diseases among themselves.

14. Lesbians and Gays usually have more mental illness than common people have. They are with different stresses and they use this as a solution to all their problems but it ends up with one more problem being added to them day by day.

15. Gays usually get more physical illness and will cause general weakness due to frequent loss of sperm.

16. Lesbians too get more physical illness due to their unhealthy practices.

17. AIDS, a deadly disease that makes the world unhappy was first identified among homosexuals. It is more prevalently spreading among homosexuals than among the normal human beings.

18. Hepatitis used to spread among gays and lesbians usually. The crucial part of this story is Hepatitis B is a deadly disease and people with risk will be fatal soon.

19. Bacterial vaginosis are common among lesbians; they spread more vaginal diseases among themselves.

20. Homosexuals hold more suicidal percentage than heterosexuals. They used to get depressed very soon and take worse decisions because of their mental unfit and general mental weakness. This may also because of their negligence in the society; when their practice is evident to other in the society they used to behave mad and usually they lose their temperament very soon.

21. Sexually transmitted diseases are more common among gays and lesbians. Some of them are syphilis, Gonorrhea (VD) and AIDS.

22. Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) a deadly virus that causes cancer among humans, spread extensively through homosexuals.

23. Gay Bowel syndrome and anal cancer a rare cancer is common among homosexuals. Also in lesbians these are spreading at a great rate, because they feed their anal opening with beer bottles and dildo which in continuing will cause bowel cancer.

24. Homosexuals are always at the risk of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) which in turn will also lead to HIV infection more commonly if continued in practice with more partners.

25. Young homosexuals are at more risk because of their arrogant sexual practice and intrusion of new techniques for more pleasure.

26. Usage of condoms during homosexual practice among Homosexuals is less than heterosexuals; where the former protects from much sexual transmission of diseases.

27. Gang sex is common among homosexuals; it is a greatest disruption in the society, the family concept of life dictated from the initiation of the earth is getting shattered because of this practice. Gang sex creates more problem than having single homosexual partner.

28. Homosexuals used to see pornography before and while indulging in sex. This would create more fantasy for them, in fact ruins their mind soul and life.

29. Fetish behaviors are worse among homosexuals because they need to be new to their partners as it is already unnatural. This would create more violence and uncomfort to the one being suppressed.

30. Homosexuals use sex for harassment than the heterosexuals. Many nowadays blackmail officers of higher post and higher authorities with homosexual practice as a tool.

22 Harmful Effects of Masturbation in Guys

Harmful effects of Masturbation

Masturbation being a noxious habit is practiced by many people all over the world; it corrupts the life of most of the youngsters nowadays than any other problem they face. Some of them are given wrong information by their friends and are encouraged to masturbate as though they do. The less knowledge about sex and the addicting capacity of the masturbation stands as a valuable reason for this growing habit among the youngsters. They assume masturbation as good for their sexual health and penis enlargement. We are provided with a good hormonal system that governs the enlargement and other activities regarding development of the sex organs.  Some of the youngsters spread wrong information that it is needed for life without fail and some others want to do as it addicts.

We are controlled by three factors (a) Emotional factor, (b) Hormonal factor, (c) Environmental factor; in that the hormonal and environmental factors can only be less changed, where as emotional factor can be controlled to some extent. We need to control us by updating information and by modifying the situations so as to escape from this habit. There is a great urge for youngsters to change their habits before they feel its worse effects. As the media and advertisements are increasing in showing the sex organs for their commercial benefits we too need to check ourselves and maintain a standard that not to go beyond these habits which spoils our life. May be every guy will get a good wife to enjoy sex, till then you can wait so as not to waste your life with this illegal and noxious habit.

Here are some of the harmful effects of masturbation to be considered, kindly read and stop doing masturbation once again. Make your impression in the comments.

1.       Masturbation makes you weak, it spends more energy and burns your calorie

2.       Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3.       Masturbation is a main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4.       Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5.       Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6.       Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7.       Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one to feel bad on his own.

8.       Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in your surroundings and it is indecent too.

9.       Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or at least think of a sexual practice/ sex organs of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10.   Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you to fell in a worse sexual problem if chance knocks the door.

11.   Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12.   Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13.   Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14.   Seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15.   Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect on others. May be you are good in all other regard but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16.   Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17.   The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18.   Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought provoking ability.

19.   Masturbation is not the end for your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20.   It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21.   Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22.   Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,